I've always been a philosopher at heart, overanalyzing
situations, people, and nature; questioning values and
our existence. Having long discussions that often lead
into arguments on various aspects of life inspires me,
as I take in other people's perceptions on life and
develop my own. Over the past couple of years my views
have drastically changed, and as I matured I sorted
I had an epiphany one night last year, while having a
telephone conversation with my friend Andre. He was a
little older than me and a lot wiser. Him and I spoke
for hours as we discussed life's many unanswered
questions. That night we argued on the topic of
destiny and whether it exists. I am one of those
stubborn, independent people that chose to scoff at
destiny for I wanted to believe that I had complete
control over my actions. But as the night progressed
and as our conversation deepened I began to see things
Andre argued that we do not have complete free will,
but only a limited amount. The rest is up to destiny
to decide, which we have no control over. The idea
seemed bizarre and outrageous, especially with my
mentality at the time. I was a strong believer of free
will and the idea of some supernatural force that
predetermines our actions sounded crazy. He then gave
me an example.Andre said that destiny exists because
if we were to travel back and relive a moment, we
would have acted upon it the same exact way. I
wondered why as he continued.We wouldn't change our
actions for that was the way we felt at that specific
time and place, after all environment affects our
actions. The pieces of the puzzle began to fit
together, as words of wisdom entered my brain. Andre
said that the small amount of free will that we have
over our actions play a significant role as well. He
said that we do have a choice to make a stand in life
and "live it", or pursue a future. "We have the choice
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