Is blood thicker (or heavier) than water - or, put another way, "does
blood run deeper than love'" In most cases, family members will always
back other family members in a dispute with mere friends or outsiders. One
example of how universal the sanctity of family is: the moral crime of
incest. It's an anthropologically provable fact, that the one most
universally observed (enforced) taboo within all of the world's known
societies is incest. Having sex with a member of one's nuclear family is
taboo, always; but on the other hand, having sex with the neighbor's wife
or with the teacher of one's high school daughter, while immoral, repugnant
and scandalous, is not a punishable as a horrific taboo against society.
According to Professor Brian Schwimmer, Department of Anthropology at
the University of Manitoba, "Kinship is the most basic principle of
organizing individuals into social groups, roles, and categories." And
although family structures "have been weakened by the dominance of the
market economy and the provision of state organized social services,"
Schwimmer continues, "the nuclear family household is still the fundamental
institution responsible for rearing children and organizing consumption."
And so, with that definition of "kinship," i.e., family, it is true
that not every family member will stick up for a fellow family member when
it comes to a disagreement with an outsider - a friend or acquaintance.
But for the most part, though brothers and sisters may fight - literally
and figuratively - they nearly always stick up for each other when the
chips are down, and when one is threatened by an outside force.
Another example of blood running deeper than love (or water!): when,
after several years of being divorced, mom meets a new man and marries him,
the re-molded, newly-arranged family may not appeal to the daughters; they
may not only dislike th...