Acquaintance rape, also known as date rape, is more common than you think.
An estimated one in eight college students are raped by acquaintances every
year, and about 85% of all rapes are date rapes, not rapes by strangers
("Acquaintance Rape"). Because date rape is so common, it is important for
all women to be aware at all times and to understand the facts about this
all-too-common form of sexual assault.
As with all rape, the effects on the victim are psychologically
profound. Following the incident, the survivor may experience anxiety,
depression, and even post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) (Curtis).
A survivor of acquaintance rape may experience difficulties
maintaining intimate relationships, especially those with the opposite sex.
The victim may not experience pleasure during consensual sex and could
become withdrawn or act out, becoming sexually promiscuous. However, the
individual effects of being raped vary considerably from person to person.
Because the survivor is acquainted with her assailant, the circumstances of
date rape evoke a unique set of psychological effects. For example, the
impetus to report the rape may be considerably less had the perpetrator
been a complete stranger, and the victim may fear social reprisal if she
reports the incident or discusses it with friends.
There are ways to prevent date rape. The SAFE website (Sexual Assault
Facts and Education) lists "trusting your gut" as the first means of
prevention. Other ways to prevent date rape are to avoid going home with a
date, because most rapes occur in homes. Not being dependent on the date
for transportation is also important, as is avoiding alcohol or drugs that
can impair judgment. Communicating your needs firmly is also a key.
Even when such precautions are taken, rapes still occur and it is
important to know what to do and how to seek help. First, never blame
yourself. Next, seek counseling at anon...