Speaking of a nation's national character' can be a rather dicey
prospect, from the point of view of political correctness as in light of a
responsible academic's fear of making hasty or uniformed sociological
generalizations about a people or a country. However, the marked and noted
differences between Russian and American methods of raising children and
socializing individuals into Russian and American society have created
different, observable developmental patterns for those individuals reared
in these societies. A sociologist cannot ignore these patterns in the name
of open-mindedness. To acknowledge them is not to say that one methodology
of upbringing is better or worse, but simply to state that there are
manifest and observable differences.
In his observations of the then-Soviet Union, the reporter Robert
Kaiser noted in the 1970's that "the theme of Russian parenthood" is "don't
let go." Although in "public" a Russian child's behavior was sternly
regulated, Russian parents and grandparents indulged their children, as
best they could, in material terms. (29) Children were not expected to
perform many household chores. Rather, they were to focus on their
studies, with the hopes of getting into a top university. In exchange for
this freedom from onerous household tasks, however, children were also
supposed to recompense their parents with hard work and obedience. Kaiser
was struck how even older children constantly informed their parents of
their various doings, sometimes well past mature adolescence, a phenomenon
perhaps underscored by the fact that poverty and housing shortages forced
individuals to live with their parents for a long time. The rigidity of
behavior in the school system, generally de-emphasizing creativity and
emphasizing rote learning, only reinforced the idea that there was a
correct mode of public behavior and an incorrect mode of public ...