Goal setting, based on an incisive analysis of an individual's
strengths and weaknesses, can be a vital aid to the development of
professional and personal skills. A lot, however, depends on the correct
identification of strengths and weaknesses from the perspective of the
subject matter in hand i.e. verbal and nonverbal communication skills. I,
therefore, deemed it essential to begin an analysis of my verbal and
nonverbal communication strengths and weaknesses, with a brief overview of
the importance and elements involved in oral communication skills.
Communication skills are an essential pre-requisite for success in
one's professional and personal life. The importance of being able to
communicate well is reflected in the fact that many employers specifically
list communication skills as a job requirement in position listings. While
employers place a great deal of emphasis on written communication skills,
especially given the increasing use of information technology in both
business and personal communication, it is interesting to note that oral
communication skills assume far higher significance. Indeed, oral
communication skills ranked first in importance in a survey conducted by
the National Association of Colleges and Employers to determine the skills
desired in potential employees (Southeast Missouri State University, 2003).
It is not difficult to understand the vital need for excellent oral
communication skills given its key role in determining the outcome of
interpersonal relationships. Be it in the professional or personal arena,
oral communication can impact the inner, emotional aspects of relationships
since it has the power to, for example, persuade, comfort, support, or
manage conflict (Finn & Powers, 2002). Though the very term oral'
signifies verbal or the use of the spoken word, it is interesting to note
that such communication is actually compose...