It is estimated that domestic abuse affects at least 2 million married
Americans every year. The number rises further when adding in non-married
and gay couples (Hamberger and Renzetti, 1996, pg. xi). Clearly, the
problem of domestic abuse is widespread, even out of control in America
today. While domestic abuse happens in both sexes, it seems to affect
women more than it does men. Women are often dominated so effectively by
their partners that they will not speak out about the abuse because they
are fearful of more violence. Some men even threaten their partners with
death if they discuss the violence at home. Some women are held virtual
prisoners in their own homes by their abusive mates. What causes domestic
abuse, and how can it be controlled in our country'
Just like most violent criminals, domestic abusers have some patterns
of behavior in common. Many researchers have found that majorities of
abusers have psychological disorders. They write, "The most frequently
reported are the borderline, antisocial, and compulsive personality
disorders and [â€] the violence-prone personality" (Hamberger & Renzetti,
1996, pg. xii-xiii). In addition, it is common for abusers to come from
abusive homes; they simply repeat the violent patterns they learned as
children. In addition, one self-proclaimed abuser notes, abusers tend to
have low self-esteem, volatile tempers, are exceptionally possessive and/or
jealous, have a need to have power over others, feelings of isolation and a
need to be "fixed" or taken care of, a history of cruelty or violence, and
fear of abandonment, which may often stem from childhood abuse (H., Will).
However, not all abusers have psychological problems, and other experts
argue that abusers are as much a product of society as they are their own
personality disorders (Hamberger & Renzetti, 1996, pg. xiii). Thus, male
abusers come from a...