The Golden Girls was a television show that depicted four retired women
living together in one house at first to save money, but later because they
have become good friends and a surrogate family for each other.
The central theme of this episode is the problems older people can
face as they consider the possibility of a romance in their later years. In
the story, Sophia Patrillo, Dorothy's mother and the oldest of the four
women, meets an elderly man at the beach. She and he seem to have a lot in
common, but as their friendship progresses he seems to be acting somewhat
erratically. In one scene, he is outraged because the bus driver has
arbitrarily changed the route he drove, causing the man great confusion.
One day Rose waits for the man, but his daughter arrives instead and tells
him that her new friend has Alzheimer's.
Rather than presenting the characters in negative stereotypes related
to old age, each character has specific traits. Rose is gullible but
clearly has been gullible all her life. Dorothy is gruff and sarcastic on
the surface but a very caring person. Blanche is man-crazy but also always
has been. Sophia has had a stroke that prevents her from curbing her
tongue. She has spent some time in a nursing home and apparently both she
and her daughter Dorothy feel she should not be living on her own, but she
still lives an independent life, which is demonstrated in this episode as
is out enjoying the beach by herself when she meets the man who becomes her
This episode reflected real life in that a significant number of older
people will develop Alzheimer's, and this condition will affect all aspects
I thought this show was presented sensitively and with compassion. The
more obvious problem of the man's Alzheimer's was presented gently and
kindly. He was not ridiculed in any way. Sophia's reaction was interesting
also because it reflected the subtle
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