There was a time when parents brought their children to restaurants only
when the child had reached a suitable age and had a grasp of proper table
manners. However, today, this unspoken code seems to have vanished and one
is just as likely to see a week-old infant drooling at the next table or
experience a two-year old's tantrum than not. And moreover, it appears
that parents not only bring their small infants and children to restaurants
regardless or their age or time of night, but the parents are apparently
void of any skills of discipline and parental tact, as well as common
courtesy to other diners and the restaurant staff.
A dining experience at a local favorite will likely include toddlers
running through the dining area, weaving in and around as if the tables and
chairs had been set up specifically for their enjoyment, their own special
obstacle course, their own special playground. And all the while the
parents or grandparents or whoever brought them, calmly finish their food
and drinks, seemingly oblivious to the fact that their children are running
rampant through the restaurant. Not only are the children disturbing other
diners but servers loaded down with trays of food and dishes are forced to
Then there are the parents who pretend to be deaf, ignoring the
blood curdling screams of their infants or toddlers. One would think that
at the first whimper, the parents would take the child outside to quiet him
or her. One would think that if one's child was screaming in the middle of
a restaurant, whether gourmet or a local hamburger joint, that the instinct
of common courtesy would force a parent to appreciate the fact that there
are many other people around who are not deaf. At times it is impossible
to hold a single thought, much less a conversation due to some child
Parents of small children should be aware that there is a large
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