The definition of a man and woman is one of those things that everyone has a unique opinion on just like religious beliefs, how to raise a child, or how to run a country. It's hard to choose a concrete sentence that regulates what it is to be a man or woman (O'Kelley, 1986). Women are allowed to wear pants, but men are not allowed to wear dresses. There are so many double standards including gender that it is frustrating to talk about because everyone should be treated equally no matter their gender or sexual orientation (Sullivan, 2010).
             Personally, I think gender should be defined by the person being judged. If you want to be called a man but have female parts, go for it. And vice-versa, and everything in between. The culture I live in and I do not hold the same opinion on a lot of things, including gender role. I don't think a man should have to pay for dinner on the first date, just like I don't think a woman should have to drop out of college if she gets married before she graduates. I think men should get the same amount of time of paternity leave as the mother gets in maternity leave, etc (Lips, 1989).Gender is fluid and there are endless combinations of feminine and masculine characteristics that a person could portrait, including who they choose as a sexual partner.
             Imagine a house - a white house with blue shutters and a red door. There are children playing in the front yard protected from the tree-covered street by a white picket fence. These children's parents are inside making dinner, and every so often one will peek out of the kitchen window to watch their kids laugh. A typical evening for a typical family in a typical neighborhood. The only real difference between this family and any other family on their tree-covered street is that those loving parents happen to be two women. However, that one difference is a huge challenge for some people to wrap their heads around. Therefore, these tw...