Child support to me is a great tool that can be used against a dead beat parent or somebody that just keeps having kids regardless of the after affect. It can help the caring and more responsible party care for their offspring; however, there are many parents who take advantage of this free money and use it for their own benefit.
             I have two boys, a five year old and three year old. I have given them everything a father could give to them. I provide a safe warm house, food on the table and clean clothes. I bath them and make them brush their teeth daily. Every Monday, Wednesday and Friday I get my five year old on the bus and my three year old to preschool. I ensure that every homework or project they bring home gets done and gets done right. I read books to them every night to help their brains develop properly. Every night I have them: they get a bath, their teeth brushed, their ears cleaned, and then of course tucked into their bed watching Wow Wow Wubzy. I take really good care of my boys.
             In 2009, I was ordered- by the Wayne County Child Support Enforcement Agency- to pay $829 a month for child support. I received the support papers in the mail. They had everything calculated from my income, the mother's income, health insurance costs, daycare costs, etc. There was also a paper for me to fill out in which I could fight the amount I was being ordered to pay. There was no doubt in my mind that this was a mistake. I mean how can my kids cost $829 a month? That being half of the cost because, the mother would be paying the other half. So in reality our kids cost us $1658 a month. I was also ordered to pay all of the daycare costs and the portions of medical costs that my health insurance didn't cover.
             A month later, both the mother and I had a meeting with the WCCSEA. The lady we met with was Tara; she was the head of the WCCSEA. We had the chance to discuss both mine and the mother's issues. Ambe...