The life of a single parent can be a very tough job. You have to be a good role model to be both mother and father. Th financial help that is needed may or may not always be there, like child support. All of the responsibilities of the household lie on your shoulders. Even though single parenting can be difficult, the rewards are far greater.
Being both mother and father can be strenuous at times. All of the discipline lands on one person. The parent doesn't have anyone to back them up in the discipline of the children, or to help enforce the rules. Children need to be shown the gentleness of a female, but also the firmness of a male. For example, a woman might read a book and cuddle with them where as a man might rough house and wrestle with them. In order for children to grow up healthey they need both a male and female perspective.
Financial responsibility is always a big issue in single parent households. You may or may not always receive child support payments. You and your children may have to do without some things to make ends meet. There are organizations you can turn to in time of need, such as for food, clothing, and shelter. Family, friends, and churches may also help in financial emergencies.
All the responsibilities of the family lie on one person instead of two, such as homemaker, cook, tutor, chauffeur, and playmate. A parent must be ready for any situation that may arise, like a child getting sick or early dismissal of school. Whether you are sick, tired, or hurt the children still have to be cared for. You must also find time to take care of yourself and make time for a social life.
The rewards outweigh the difficult times. You get to see the excitement on their faces when they achieve a goal, such as riding a bicycle without training wheels or learning to read. Even though children fight with their siblings, you can still see the love and care they have for each othe...